Usually, when I do an outfit post or picture, I like to dress up and show you some pretty dress. But this time I thought I would show you a few of my casual wear and what I wear on a day to day basis. I must admit, as much as I love to dress up, I wouldn't exactly go to Tesco in them. So on a day to day basis, I'm usually in jeans and a top. ⠀
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If I were to describe my style, it would be summed up in two words: quirky and fun. I'm sure you realise by now I don't like boring black fashion – I do fun, bright, colourful style. Case in point is this Collectif watermelon dress. You can't get more quirky and fun fashion than this, can you?⠀
I like my clothes to reflect a lot of my personality, eternally youthful while also quirky and fun. Yup, that pretty much summed up me. The saying, you are who you are by the clothes you wear, really does hold up with me.⠀
I'm still that little girl who had a dressing up box as a child and would play dress-up; now I just have a wardrobe filled with more clothes than I could ever need as my dressing up box. I still like to have fun with my clothes, and I haven't lost that childhood wonder about clothes. And I don't think I ever will.⠀
Overall, what I'm saying is that this Collectif watermelon dress reflects who I am as a person and also my style. I also believe it represents how fashion shouldn't be all serious; it should be fun and should put a smile on a person's face.⠀
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If I were to describe...

* Stare at the computer screen completely blank, not sure what write*. Pretty summed up my week really - a blank space. Yup got writer block. ⠀
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* Stare at the computer...

A girl who just love polka dots! Also, you can see the *bad* dyed job I did when I thought it would be rock and roll to go blue. Haha ⠀
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A girl who just love...

When I see a floral dress it like a moth to a flame. ⠀
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When I see a floral...

Just adding some yellow flowers to brighten up your day and to make you smile. xx ⠀
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Just adding some yellow flowers...

5 Ways to Stop Wallowing in Self-Pity

The past few months I have been on that downward spirals and have been wallowing in my self-pity. Its something I have been feeling but never knew exactly how to express it or how to put it into words or context. But one day recently, I found myself googling a bunch of phrases and finally came across the exact phrases I was looking for: wallowing in self-pity.

I have never been the most confident woman in the world, I tend to keep to myself, and I do have that constant feeling that I’m not good enough at anything in life. So what do I do – yup I get to sit in a pool of my wallowing self-pity.

Imagine being in the middle of a murky pond where it more mud than water, and you are completely stuck and not able to move. Yes, that how it been like for me. Just me sitting in the middle of this murky pond of my self-pity.

Pretty rubbish isn’t it?

So that why I’m here, to stop walling in my self-pity. Walling in your pool of self-pity in my experiences doesn’t change anything. It doesn’t.

I’m hoping by writing this I finally have the strength to pull myself out this wallowing self-pity pool and get my act together.

Here are 5 ways to stop walling in self-pity and to pull yourself out that murky pool.

Start saying yes and no:

Start learning the difference between yes and no. Learn to say no when people start to put you down and want you to do something that will make you unhappy.  And start to say yes to opportunities that will improve your life and make you happier and healthier. Something I have observed with me wallowing in my self-pity is how it makes you feel weak, and it doesn’t improve your situation. Learn to use your voice and use the command, yes and no correctly.

Sit in the sun:

Scientists have proved that sitting in the sun and soaking up that good ole’ vitamin D helps beat depression and improve your moods. It is also good for improving your energy levels.

Keep a journal or blog:

Mental health experts have proved that writing a journal or a blog every day does improve your moods and keep you more focus in life. This way is an effective way to reprogrammed the brain.

Talk:

Talk to someone or something. Even if you got no one to talk to, use your voice and speak. Often the voices in your head are different from the voice that speaks out loud.

Find a piece of that rope and pull:

Ok I know I used the murky pond as a way to visualise my self-pity. But now image something like quicksand and you are sinking quite quickly to the bottom. Well, what are you going to do? You only go two options: sink to the bottom or pull yourself out. So my advice would be to find a piece of rope and use all your strength and energy to pull yourself out.

Those were my 5 ways to stop wallowing in self-pity. You know, it took me nearly two months to write this. I simply got too comfortable in that murky pond, which isn’t very healthy. Hopefully, now it all out in the open, I might be able to get back to business and start to feel happier.

What ways do you stop yourself wallowing in self-pity?

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